
Ted is a rescue Dane who lived in
a lonely, small yard in Dallas the
first 5 years of his life. He lived
to run the fence and dig holes in
the yard. We only know this because
when his people moved they left a
neighbor to care for him and never
came back for him and so the
neighbor brought him to
Dane Angel Network and told the
story.
Dane Angel
Network took him in and paid for a
tumor to be removed from his mouth,
heartworm treatment and of course
altering. He was
fostered by a wonderful couple who
had a large number of Danes and Ted
learned about indoor living, toys
and living in a Dane. All very good
practice for being at our busy
house.
Ted's birthday is September, 15th,
the day he became ours. He has lived
with us since 2002. When Ted first
came he was solitary. He did not
really know what to do with other
dogs completely. He had lived
without much positive human
attention for so long he could not
reverse his tendencies to stick to
the fringes. He enjoys playing alone
for the most part to this day, but
now engages in play with other dogs
as well as with his people.
Ted also had a fear of men. We think
he may have been punished ( maybe
for digging) when his master came
home from work each evening because
each day at around 5 pm he would
become very frightened and tense. I,
not knowing what was up, would let
him outside where he would instantly
go to far corner of the yard and
hide, when Jack came home about an
hour later he would not greet him,
come inside or go near him for
hours, when he felt nothing
bad would happen, he would come in,
but steered clear of Jack. He did
not act like this in the mornings or
on days that Jack did not work. It
took a few months of gentle
treatment to teach Ted that he was
not going to be punished when Jack
came home. He was welcome to dig all
the holes he wanted. When he would
dig a perilous hole that might hurt
someone we just filled it with a
mixture of gravel, dog poo and dirt
and he would find another spot.
The introduction of toys was a
bright spot and meant more holes for
Ted. He loves to dig and re-dig a
hole until its just right for the
toy to be in and then get another
toy and do the same. He has toys
stashed all over the yard and we
love to act like we are not watching
so he will retrieve and hide his
toys in relative secret.
For the sake of extra bonding Jack
and Ted went to basic obedience
classes and
they both loved it. Ted loved going
places with Jack and graduated third
in his class. They are tight buddies
to this day because of those
classes.
Bringing Ted from a lonely boy to a
member of a bigger community with
dogs big and small, cats of all
kinds and fast moving older children
had its ups and downs. He was not
prepared for any of it and we all
learned to adjust. He did kill a cat
and needed intensive re-training to
view cats differently. He learned to avoid cats leaving the room when they entered. Now he tolerates their tails under his nose, but love cats? No way! LOL!
Ted is the is the
coveted alpha dog that everyone
loves, except Andrew. But that is
another story. He loves to be
outside in the garden and is the
perfect garden buddy. Digging, aerating the soil, and tilling the
ground as well as being a dedicated
field mouse chaser. I am sure the
field mice whisper his name in fear.
We often are winsome thinking how
different life would have been for
Ted had we been his only family. How
he would have not had such obstacles
to overcome, but in the end we are
simply thankful for the times we are
having with him and hope for many
more years of good health for him.
Update 2007
For months I have dreaded
updating Ted's bio to reveal his
death, as if him being alive in
cyber-space was my last lifeline to
our special boy. Ted is the reason I
do everything I do about great danes.
He is the purpose I find for trying
to find a healthier, happier life
for each dane we own and why dane
rescue is close to my heart. He is
the sole reason we have so many
beautiful great danes in our home.
Our lives are eclipsed by his
passing and we wonder again when the
sun will shine.
Ted had a bad
heart, years of heartworm damage as
well as damage left by the cure. See
heartworm treatment is very toxic
and can destroy heart tissue along
with the heartworms. If a dog is
young enough or the damage is light
enough the risks are small, but for
5 years old danes and older its a
risky choice. In
defense of Dane Angel Network they
were not certain of Ted's age at
time of treatment.
Our vet was very
concerned about his heart. He often
wondered how Ted was standing
upright let alone breathing.
We found out about 2 years ago he
had a tumor on his Thyroid Gland (
probably had it for years). So then
it fell into place. The tumor caused
his Thyroid Gland to over produce so
that is why he was obsessive about
running the fence line, and digging
holes and just being active in
general. Also this could have
contributed to his dangerous
jealousy of cats and dominance
issues with other dogs. It also is
what kept him alive to the age of 11
with a heart as battle scarred as a
kitchen sponge. Ted was
similar to athletes on
steroids...phenomenal endurance and
strength and a hair trigger with
dogs and cats.
We left the
tumor. To remove his tumor was to
kill him faster.
Ted's robbing
Peter to pay Paul live strategy
ended January 19, 2007 at about 3
am. He was always a deliberate dane.
He only woke me up if he needed
something and about 20 minutes to 2
he did just that. He wanted to go
outside. Was desperate for it. I
took him downstairs and stood on the
porch trying to find the flashlight
so I could see him do his business.
I always check to make sure each of
our dogs have health stools and
urine. Well he was having nothing of
it. He walked off into the night
beyond the porch light. It was quiet
for about 15 minutes, then I heard
him shuffling around the fence line.
I gave him his space, not because I
knew he needed to be along, but
because I didn't have shoes. He made
it all the way around the perimeter
then came and found me. It took him
another 30 minutes. And I was snoozy
by then. curled up in a stick chair
on the porch.
We went back
upstairs and he climbed in bed with
me. A surprise since he couldn't get
up into bed anymore, but he did it
just the same. I started to dose and
he was wide awake nudging and
snuggling with me playfully. I
petted and played with him for about
30 minutes then caught sight of the
clock (nearly 3) "Its late", I
thought. I was just getting ready to
tell him to quiet down and get some
sleep. When he bent his head back
and made a muffled scream. I wrapped
my arms around him to the sound of
Jack running up the stairs. Jack had
fallen asleep in front of the TV but
now he as there and put his arms
around Ted too. Our hands searched
for a pulse but found none. We
rocked our Ted in our arms knowing
he was gone. As if his life was torn
from him with a scream. The sun came
up that morning on a world without
Ted. Everything changed.
Ted taught us to
believe in messed up dogs. To
understand that negative behaviors
can be changed. That love and
training to a dog with a disturbing
past can change ingrained behaviors.
He gave us confidence to continue to
be gentle loving leaders to our pack
and let the behavior issues just
melt away. Ted taught us about
conditional love. His love had
conditions. He needed to be taught
how to act right to be a loving dog.
Living with Ted and discovering the
depths he could love changed our
lives. We have taken on dogs with
deeper issues because of Ted. And
those dogs take us further along in
the understanding of what brings a
good dog out of a disturbed one. In
short, Ted made us better dog
parents, better people, and a better
family.
Our Eternal Love
and Gratitude to Theodore Russell
Cates for being our guide, our
teacher and our dear companion. With
joyful tears of thanks,
The Cates Family.